Happy Spring!

Even though it's snowing here today...

As I'm sure you've figured out from my lack of recent posts, I've been busy! My days pretty much consist of going to work, picking up Ainsley and playing with her until she goes to bed by 8:00, then dishes, laundry, cleaning, and going to bed, only to start it all over again the next day. But I love it - I'm a creature of habit, and the only thing I would change about my current routine is that I would love to be able to stay home with Ainsley. We've discussed the possibility of me doing daycare when we move to Colorado so I can be home with her. Unless Justin gets a good enough job that I don't have to! Regardless of how we have to make it happen, I will be home with her!

Ainsley is growing in leaps and bounds - it seems like everyday she can do something new! At her 4 month well-baby check-up, she weighed 13lbs, 15oz and was 22 3/4 inches long. She's pretty much outgrown all of her 0-3 month clothes, and even some of the 6 month clothes are getting snug! She rolls over from back to tummy now; the first time she rolled over was tummy to back, and she hasn't done it since. She's recently discovered her feet and plays with them all the time. Last night she sat up almost straight by herself for a few seconds, before folding in half and getting mad! She talks and laughs all the time, and is all around a very happy girl, unless she's hungry or tired! We've started her on solids, we're doing pears this week. She's doing pretty well with them, she only has a few bites a day and gets bored, but she's learning how to eat! Last night was the first time she seemed to really get excited about it and swallowed the whole spoonful, rather than spitting half of it out! She's very aware of her surroundings and always knows exactly where Mama and Daddy are at all times! She likes people, as long as she can look at them while one of us is holding her. She's a little leery of strangers holding her, which makes me feel good! :) She's still constantly moving, and is usually only still when she's tired or sleeping. Once she's mobile, we're in trouble! She still loves to snuggle when she's tired, although she gets mad most nights around bedtime - she does not like being tired! So she gets worked up and it usually takes a bit of effort to settle her down and get to sleep, if she doesn't fall asleep nursing. She's back to waking up at night to eat, usually 2 times, which is one of the reasons we're starting solids! For awhile we were having a hard time getting her to stay sleeping in her crib, but my mom figured out that she was probably just getting cold, so we started dressing her warmer for bed and now she sleeps great, until she gets hungry, that is. Toys-wise, we're upgrading this weekend to a bouncer, so she can sit up and play and bounce and look around. She still enjoys her playmat, but she much prefers sitting up. She loves hands, and will play with her hands or ours for long stretches. Usually they end up in her mouth, which is fine, until she gets teeth! She also loves faces and will study them closely, and if you're within arm's reach, she'll play with your nose and lips. Just watch out - she pinches! :) Her little personality comes out more everyday, and it's so fun! Basically, she's wonderful and beautiful and I adore her! Be watching our YouTube channel (we3distels) for crazy cute videos!

Justin has 3 weeks left in the semester and then he GRADUATES!!!! Finally!! Graduation is May 7 (Mother's Day weekend) at 10am. We'll have a little open house at our place after, and I'm sure we'll do something for him sometime we're home for a family get-together before we move. Once the semester is over, it's time to send out resumes!

We're very much looking forward to getting out of our tiny, cramped apartment this summer, whether it's in Colorado or here! Most likely it will be Colorado, but that all depends on our job/house hunting trip this summer. We'll be getting rid of some of our furniture and looking to replace it - most of what we have is inexpensive, from-the-box furniture we bought when we first got married, or small, and we're wanting to upgrade slightly and get furniture that's a little bigger in scale to fit in a bigger place. We're hoping to find a house to rent. So if anyone is interested in cheap or free furniture, this is what we're getting rid of: couch and loveseat (with slipcovers), tall black bookshelf, possibly a hightop table and chairs, black TV stand, possibly a large computer desk and chair. We're buying a new couch and loveseat when there's a good sale somewhere, but the rest I'm willing to replace used, if anyone has anything! I want good quality, preferably solid wood. Specifically, I'm looking for at least 2, possibly 3 wooden dressers. 1 smaller for Ainsley, 1 a little larger for us, and 1 that is low, with at least 4, preferably 6 drawers that I can refurbish into a TV stand. Depending on where we end up, we may be in the market for a used washer and dryer.

Ok, this wasn't intended to turn into an ad! All in all, life is good here in the woods. Busy, slightly chaotic, totally centered around a 5 month old, and good!

I will try to get better at updating as Ainsley becomes more independent and doesn't need me constantly when I'm with her!

Michelle

It's been too long...

I've just been so busy! I'm a busy mama with lots going on - working full time, taking care of a pretty little girl, spending time with friends, spending time with my husband, trying to keep the house clean, and making sure to save a little time for me. It's alot, but I'm getting the hang of it!

The biggest aspect of it all is of course little Miss Ainsley Marie! She's so beautiful and fun! She's 3 1/2 months now - when did that happen?! She's discovered her hands and her voice, so she's constantly chewing on and staring at her hands, and chatters all day long! She's also started laughing! We still have to work pretty hard to get those laughs, but they're there! She's thriving at daycare - we have a wonderful daycare provider, and the other kids just adore Ainsley. She's growing like a weed, and the best news of all - she's sleeping through the night!!!! She's down for the night between 7:30 and 8:30 depending on when she eats, and wakes up pretty consistently at 6:30, which works perfect for my morning schedule. We still have to get up once or twice a night just to pop her pacifier back in, but I'm not up for 30-45 minutes every 3 hours, so I can handle it! The challenge we're facing right now is getting her to sleep. She acts tired, but fights it so hard, so now we're in the let-her-cry-it-out phase, and I hate it! I know it won't last long, but it breaks my heart to hear her cry!

I've made it my mission to be super-mom. By super-mom, I mean being the best wife, mother, daughter, friend, employee, and most importantly, believer, that I can be. I believe that I can excel at a full-time job, take excellent care of my beautiful daughter, love and serve my husband, grow in my faith, maintain and grow in my relationships with my family and friends, and keep my house clean too! I have to be very intentional, and I have to say, ever since I made the conscious decision to do this, I've felt much more content and happy. A huge part of it is that my apartment is starting to get neat and clean again - a messy, cluttered home does nothing but stress me out, and now that it's getting better, I've felt my stress level decrease significantly. And, I'm getting a Wii Active 2 next week so I can start working out and get rid of those last 6 baby pounds, and then some! It's hard when I work until 5, have to pick up Ainsley from daycare and don't get home until at least 5:30, find time to eat, play with Ainsley, and have her in bed on time. With Justin working most nights, I'm on my own in the evenings, so I don't have time to go out and work out, and I refuse to get up any earlier! So I need something I can do at home after Ainsley is in bed - enter the Wii! I'm really excited to start using it! Basically, my goal is to be just an overall happier, healthier person and ensure my family is healthy and happy.

A long overdue update...

... we've just been so busy!

Ainsley is now 6 weeks, 5 days old! She's talking and playing and smiling a ton, and is just gorgeous. It's been a big week for the Distel family - I went back to work yesterday, so Ainsley started daycare yesterday. She's mostly just going for half days, but it's still a big deal! There were (minimal) tears on my part yesterday! She did great, pretty much just slept and let all the kids fawn over her! I did better than I thought I would, my day went really fast. It helps that I really like my job! I'm very much looking forward to picking her up tomorrow at 5 and having her all to myself all weekend!

Christmas was wonderful - exhausting and a total blur, but wonderful. Ainsley got spoiled rotten, and Mommy and Daddy came out pretty well too! :) We spent 3 days at Mom and Dad's, and they were jam-packed from Christmas Eve through baptism the day after Christmas. Ainsley pretty much just slept through the 3 days, and I can't blame her!

Justin's family flew home on Tuesday after spending 2 weeks with us. Justin had the day off, so we spent it at home, just the 3 of us, before reality started in! And Ainsley has pretty much been sleeping since - I think she's recovering from the chaos of the past several weeks!

How the time flies

What?! It's December 14?! WHAT?! My baby girl is 3 weeks, 3 days old?! When did this happen? Make it stop!

I have been loving every single minute I've had at home with Miss Ainsley and I am positively dreading going back to work in 3 weeks! I wish there was some way to make money while hanging out with your daughter, or for Justin to make money going to school. Then I could stay home!

Justin and I went out on a date, all by ourselves, on Sunday night! We left Ainsley in the very capable hands of 2 friends and went to see Harry Potter. It was wonderful and also so strange! Only a couple hours away from her and I missed her sooo much - how am I going to do 8 hour days when I go back to work?

Friday Ainsley and I are going to Fergus for the weekend - we have a baby shower at Mom and Dad's on Saturday and I'm so excited! I haven't been home since July! The drive should be interesting - hopefully she'll just sleep the whole time. I'm excited to see friends and family that I haven't seen since this summer, and to just be home again.

Next Tuesday Justin's dad and sisters fly in to spend 2 weeks with us, so we're busy getting ready for that, and Justin is sooooo excited! We haven't seen them since last Christmas, so its a long overdue visit.

I'm recovering very well, feeling good and (mostly) getting enough sleep. Naps are a wonderful thing! I've been feeling good enough to putter around the house a little, though I can't get a whole lot done with a newborn! I make sure to allot myself more than enough cuddle time on the couch with my snugglebug! I know how quickly these precious days are going by, so I'm eating up every single minute!

Michelle

Ainsley Pix

Ainsley Marie Distel

November 20, 2010

4:26pm

7lbs 5 oz

18" long

She's here!

I started having contractions Saturday morning around 7:00. We went on a walk and before long, they were about 5 minutes apart and 1 minute long. The labor and delivery nurse suggested taking a warm bath to try and relax and call again when they were to the point of not being able to talk or walk through them. I soaked in the tub for a long time, and as soon as I got out, the contractions got harder and right on top of each other, so we went in around 3:00. When the nurse checked me, I was dilated to 5cm, but she didn't think she felt the baby's head where it was supposed to be, so she went to get the ultrasound machine and another nurse to make sure. She still wasn't sure even with the ultrasound, so the other nurse took a look and sure enough, she found her head way up by my ribs. She checked me as well, and felt a little foot! Then things started happening fast. By then, Mom and Katie were there. Because she was footling breech and I was already in active labor, they weren't willing to try and turn her, so C-section was the way we were going. By 4:00, I was in the OR, and at 4:26, she was out. They found that not only was she breech, she also had the cord around her neck 2 times. And they found a "good-sized" fibroid in my uterus, which they removed. When they announced she was a girl, Justin (and most of the people in the room) were very surprised! Then they announced her weight, and I was very surprised! I was expecting her to be much bigger than she was. They cleaned her up and we got a few pictures while they finished with me, then took her and Justin up to the nursery. I was in recovery for about 45 minutes, and by 6:30 we were all in our room and I had my little girl in my arms!

We came home on Tuesday morning, and Mom is here until at least Thursday. Dad and Katie were here until Sunday afternoon, and just got here for Thanksgiving, so we're all just relaxing at home.

Welcome to the world, Ainsley Marie!

Michelle

Who would have thunk it

I saw my doc this morning for my 40 week appointment. 4 months of sitting down to keep Baby D from coming out, and here I am at 40 weeks! And, I have an appointment scheduled for next Tuesday, with no promises or even hints that Baby will come before then! And the potential for induction was brought up! My doctor didn't say either way whether he thinks I'll make it to Tuesday (we told him he jinxed us last week by saying he probably wouldn't see me today!), he just said to schedule it for then and hopefully baby will come before. If I were to be induced, the earliest that would happen is next Friday. (If it comes to that, I won't wait past then!) He checked me and I'm STILL at 1.5 cm, but I'm now 100% effaced, which is good news. At least there's some progress going on.

So now we continue to wait. And my child just grows more. Goody.

Michelle